The Kinky Kitten

http://prompts.submissiveguide.com/314 Hello my Little Hellions! Submissive journal prompt time!!! Today's prompt is: "Is love first or second in your dynamic?' So with the Batdaddy and myself, I believe that love comes first. We haven't been in our dynamic for the longest period of time (shortly before starting this blog actually). I am pet and He is Owner. But this is not the only way we are. We are boyfriend and girlfriend. We have been together for almost eight years now (it will be eight years, ironically, on February 14th, valentine's day which is probably our least favorite holiday, of next year) and it has been absolutely wonderful. Lately, there have been few problems. But this is normal for most relationships anyway. Mostly it has been my fault. I have not been home and I have working on a lot of projects other than our relationship. I have neglected some duties that He finds are important to him. I am currently doing my best to remedy this situati...

Hello my Little Hellions!! It's time for another prompt!!! http://prompts.submissiveguide.com/66 The prompt is as follows: "What is a “hard day’s work” for you?"  By Pizarros (Own work) [CC BY-SA 3.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/3.0)], via Wikimedia Commons HA. This is interesting. If you saw my work and volunteering schedule you would see that I am busy probably six out of seven days of the week, with the seventh being the day I spend with BatDaddy running all sorts of errands. So I guess you could say that every day is a busy one. For me, I tend to sleep a lot (my body doesn't recover as fast as other people's bodies for the most part). On the days I do not sleep I tend to spend a lot of time either reading or writing. My depression tends to keep me from doing much. For example, Friday mornings I go to the one doctor. Noon I have lunch. Then I go to either a doctor or a physical therapist. After that, I usually hang with a friend an...

Hello my Little Hellions. Here's a fun prompt for the day!: http://prompts.submissiveguide.com/684 The prompt??: "What is the one quality you think most Dominants possess?" This could be fun. I will tell you the thing I immediately thought of. The Look. I'm going to say most D-types are able to do this (switches in D-type mode, as well). It's that look that you get when you know you are crossing a line or if you are fucking up. It may even be something that tells you that you are about to get something and you may not be ready for it (so stay on your toes). BatDaddy has a Look he gives me when I say or do something stupid. It stems from his Old School Goth roots. That snarky and sarcastic look that just makes me go "Oh fuck." Sometimes I know what I did. You can tell, usually. It's that Look that makes you reign yourself back in. I've even gotten a variety of Looks from other D-types (besides BatDaddy). I know everyone is capable of givin...

Hey guys. Harvest here. Sorry for my unusually long break. I have been taking a bit of a mental health vacation again. You all know that I have a hard time getting to a point where I feel like I am in a good place. I feel like this is a good time to go about talking about something more positive, so I found a very positive journal prompt that I could try.  http:///prompts.submissiveguide.com/1171 The prompt is simple: List some things that you love about yourself. So. I suppose I should make a small list. I like the fact that I know how to sew.-- It is a handy skill and I can help a lot of people out with that skill, even if it's sewing on buttons or zippers and the like. I like the fact that I can make my own patterns if I choose to and make my own outfits. I want to improve my sewing skills, but I think I'm doing pretty well at the moment. But there is always room for improvement. I want to learn how to do quilts. I think I would have fun making them. I would make them...

http://prompts.submissiveguide.com/412 Hi everyone! Harvest again. Today's Submissive Journal Prompt (SJP) is: "Do you ever experience burnout? How do you handle it? Do you take measures to avoid it?" I DO experience burnout. There are times when I can't really feel like I function properly. I have mental issues which cause me problems on top of this. I think they kind of compound the burnout in a way. Depression can become quite the problem if you don't take care of it as soon as you can. It runs in my family so I am used to the effects it can have on people. As a teenager, I told myself if I made it to the age of 25 I would be happy. I was, at the time, very suicidal. I hated everything about my life. I felt like my friends would leave me at the drop of a hat. My boyfriends were never "really there" for me when I thought they should be (even though they actually were! I just didn't realize it at the time). I had done so many things to injure my...

SJP----Topping? http://prompts.submissiveguide.com/709 Hi everyone! It's time for another Submissive Journal Prompt!!! Today's prompt is: "Have you ever been asked by your Owner to switch and play the top with another submissive?" I have not!!! My Owner doesn't really feel like it's okay for me to really Top someone, unless it's a non-sexual kind of relationship. I have topped before. I topped a babygirl. The experience was kind of brutal and put me under a lot of stress. She was very cruel to me and actually mocked me at every chance she could. I'm not sure if she was trying to brat or what, but we clashed so much. I was happy just being her friend. Since then, we don't speak. We've unfriended on fetlife and such. I see she is going to events and I do my best to avoid her. It's very rare we run into each other, so it's not really a big deal. We run in relatively separate circles. We'll wave and smile at each other if we see ea...

SJP—Domestics! http://prompts.submissiveguide.com/97 Hello all! It’s time for another journal prompt! Today’s journal prompt is: “Do you enjoy domestic chores? Which ones do you like more than others?” So, to answer the question, yes I do enjoy domestic chores, at least to a degree. I have a hard time loading laundry into and out of the machines, but I like to fold the laundry. Especially when it’s warm and I can snuggle up in it. It takes me several trips to get laundry from one room to the other, depending on how large of a load the laundry is. I try to do laundry pretty frequently to keep up with the demand (and don’t you know it’s always in demand!?). Dishes are one of those things that I have to do by hand. I have never really had dishwashers, and even when I have had the pleasure of having a dishwasher I still washed a lot of the dishes by hand. There are just some things that you have to do on your own. You know, to cut the ick and all that. I really like ...

Hey guys! Long time, no post! So I’m back. I’m trying to get back into the swing of things. I’ve had a brilliantly wondrous weekend. I figured I’d kick off my return with a blog prompt post! So, let’s get down to the nitty-gritty. “Do you identify as submissive or slave or something entirely different? What is your definition for that identity?” http://prompts.submissiveguide.com/359 This is actually a good question. I consider myself more submissive than slave. I’m too spoiled rotten though to be much of either. I consider myself a Pet. I like being taken care of, but I also am willing to do other things and I can be trained to do tricks. I’m good at tricks. That’s honestly one of my favorite parts. I think that most people consider “doing tricks” to be demeaning and not something they want to take part of. I don’t feel ashamed or demeaned by this. I feel free. Like I am expressing myself further. It brings me into a pet kind of headspace that’s beautiful in i...

"We all know that roses are a common symbol for love. What flower do you think describes your submission? Why?" I jokingly would say that a flower or plant that represented my submission would be poison ivy. Clingy and very itchy (wait, what?). Clingy because I have a tendency to sort of co-mingle with the person that I am with in a way that could become irritating to them, but is beneficial because I can protect us both. I don't feel right if I can't protect the both of us. I want my Top to be happy. I am glad that I have my Owner, who puts up with my crap every day and puts me in my place. Itchy because... well, it's sort of a metaphor for being irritating. I can become very irritating to people I am close to, because of how much I cling to them. I'm not going to lie (I try not to anyway, but you get the point), but I think I have a dependency issue. Now, if I was to suggest a real flower that represented my submission, I would think of it as a sort...

“How blessed am I in this discovering thee To enter in these bonds is to be free.” – John Donne This was the quote from the Submissive Journal Prompts that I took to do today. I want to say that I have never felt any better than I do now. I have tried my hardest to be the best pet that I can for my Owner. I feel like the further into submissiveness that I venture, the safer and happier I feel. I am in a whole new world, and I love it. So I ask you: Are we free in our submission? I personally feel free. I feel like I can do anything (within reason of course, but why do I want to do anything but what would not please my Owner?) that I want to do. My structure helps me be free. My play time helps me be free, as well. In this I am free. What are your thoughts? -harvest