Monday, July 25, 2016

TMI Tuesday---- 07/26/2016

1. What’s the hardest thing you’ve ever done?
Getting the courage to go on stage. And I have done it several times since then!

2. What did you do growing up that got you into trouble?
Reading and playing online past bedtime (I was such a problem child! lol)

3. When was the last time you had an amazing meal? What was it? Why was it amazing for you?
Oh, I tend to think each meal is amazing in it's own way. Just imagine what those brave souls who first said "Gee, that creature looks interesting. Let's kill it, drown it in spices and whatnot, and put it in our mouths" had to go through to give us what we have today.

4. What’s the best/worst gift you’ve ever given/received?
The best gift I've received is the gift of friendship (Ha. Right?).

5. What do you miss most about being a kid?
Oh goddess. Not paying bills. Totally.

Bonus: What is something you learned in the last week?
I learned about different types of snakes. And that was just in the last hour! I always have so much fun learning new things.

Friday, July 22, 2016

Happy Birthday Harvest 2016

Happy Birthday to me.

Just wanted to revel in that glow.

Thank you my Little Hellions for being with me another year. I hope this one is amazing.

Lots of love,
-Harvest Hellion

Monday, July 18, 2016

TMI Tuesday-- 07/19/2016

Hello my Little Hellions~!! It's TMI Tuesday time again! Here's some stuff to enjoy!!

1. Hi there. Tell us about your job and what you do?
I work at a fabrics and crafts store. I love it so much. I also volunteer with the local community as much as I can, garnering me the self-titled title of "Resident Support Kitten" I love all of these things and I try to stay as upbeat as possible. The other day I actually had an oops and was rude to a customer on accident. I had (still have as of this writing) a migraine/headache since 7-8-2016 so I was having a hard time getting my attitude in check. I'm so sorry to that person. I would hate to have been them. I NEVER get rude. I get snarky, but never rude.
 
2. What piece of advice would you give to a co-worker?
If I had to give advice, I would say for them to always keep a positive outlook (especially at work) and give at least one compliment to each customer. Not only does this brighten their day, it gives you a feeling of fulfillment as well. (LOVE LOVE LOVE)
 
3. What 2 pieces of advice would you give to a new blogger?
To a new blogger, I would tell them that they should invest time in all forms of social media and to connect with your readers. People come to our blogs for creative and interesting views. Share what you can and live your truth.
 
4. What 1 piece of advice would you give to a veteran blogger–someone blogging for more than 3 years?
Oh, my. I don't think I would give them advice. Maybe I would tell them to stick with it. It's worth it. Bloggers offer a unique service with all sorts of interesting things. We are the Bards of the Internet RPG (lol, sorry I'm a total nerd). Keep it up and spread the love. Why would anyone want to read a blog about things people hate??
 
5. What do you hope visitors to your blog see, take away, feel or learn?
I want my visitors to come away with a laugh, a smile, and maybe some interesting information. I want them to spread the love and to possibly have a safer time. I'm still deciding if I think SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual) or RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) is more for me. But I think my readers need to form their own opinions.
 
6. Have you ever had something happen to you that you thought was bad but it turned out to be for the best?
I was raped. Strangely it turned out okay. I hate going into it. Because of my rape, I now have the best boyfriend/Owner in the world. He is my rock, my world, and my life. I live to serve him and please him as much as I physically can.
 
Bonus: What was the last experience that made you a stronger person?
I'm not sure. I don't see myself as a very strong person. I kind of fake being strong when I have to and then I go off somewhere and cry. Although, I think most of the time I cry anyway. I cry a LOT. I'm a very emotional person. I suppose I'm somewhat of an empath but I don't really see myself that way. I just see myself as someone who cares (probably too much).

Thursday, July 14, 2016

SJP-- A Hard Day's Work

Hello my Little Hellions!! It's time for another prompt!!!

http://prompts.submissiveguide.com/66

The prompt is as follows: "What is a “hard day’s work” for you?"

 By Pizarros (Own work) [CC BY-SA 3.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/3.0)], via Wikimedia Commons


HA. This is interesting. If you saw my work and volunteering schedule you would see that I am busy probably six out of seven days of the week, with the seventh being the day I spend with BatDaddy running all sorts of errands. So I guess you could say that every day is a busy one.

For me, I tend to sleep a lot (my body doesn't recover as fast as other people's bodies for the most part). On the days I do not sleep I tend to spend a lot of time either reading or writing. My depression tends to keep me from doing much.

For example, Friday mornings I go to the one doctor. Noon I have lunch. Then I go to either a doctor or a physical therapist. After that, I usually hang with a friend and get dinner afterwards. Then we travel to her house that's about an hour away. The Thursday before I have my bags packed becuase on Fridays I stay the night so we can go to classes on Saturdays. If I can fit some time in, I work on my reading or writing in between everything, whilst going through music the entire day to find things I like or that I can get inspiration from (music is my drug! LOL).

So I would say that that is a relatively busy day for me. It doesn't always feel like hard work but there are days when it just kind of collapses on top of me and messes with me.

Lots of love,
-Harvest Hellion

I'm Not a Doctor, Nor Do I Play One on TV

Hi my Little Hellions.

So I wanted to talk about something important. I want to talk about medical sheets. Something like a pill minder even. (Disclaimer: I am not a doctor, nor do I play one on tv. If you have health issues of any sort, please see an actual doctor. I implore you.)

When an s-type and a D-type get together (or two switches or even two vanillas or even more if you're poly) there will be negotiations. Something that I find is often overlooked is medical history.

Does your Top know you are diabetic? Does your s-type know you get dizzy spells? Have you ever had any surgeries?

These are common questions that need to be addressed somehow, and the answer to how to do it is very simple: A brief medical history sheet.

A good medical history sheet will have what pills you take with what milligram and how often. Definitely add what sort of health issue you have briefly (for example, if you have anxiety in a certain situation like I do, add "Anxiety-Large Crowds"). It will include your surgeries as well. And for some bonus points you should add what doctors you see or where you typically go for treatment.

You can keep this in your purse or wallet on a sheet of paper. I personally use the "Health" app on my iPhone 6 (I'm an iSheep, lol). There are many different types of apps you can get on your phone to record various things on there that pertain to your health status and whatnot. Do some research on the apps so they will help out more to the particular way you want to have things set up.

Here is a cool website that reviews health apps and what they do:

http://www.imedicalapps.com/#

It's a super helpful app site.

You should also have a pill minder app if you are particularly forgetful. You might already have a physical pill minder, but you should use a pill minder app to remember to go to even look at your pills, just in case. You can never be too prepared. I actually have my iPhone set up to remind me to take things in the morning and at night on one of my google calendars. You can even set it to an alarm. This is particularly important if you have to take birth control pills, because they have a very strict regimen.

So when you get together, give the other person(s) the heads up. It might be difficult to do in a poly relationship becuase you will have multiple people doing things and you'll have to keep up with all of them. You may not want to GIVE the other people or person your medical history. This is something you should keep on your person. Just make sure the other person(s) know where it is (if you hav eit printed or on your phone, etc).

Just some fun tips about medical safety from me. (Please remember that I am not a doctor, and should not be a replacement for one.)

 By Pöllö (Own work) [CC BY 3.0 (http://creativecommons.org/licenses/by/3.0)], via Wikimedia Commons


Lots of love,
-Harvest Hellion

Dominant Traits

Hello my Little Hellions. Here's a fun prompt for the day!:

http://prompts.submissiveguide.com/684

The prompt??: "What is the one quality you think most Dominants possess?"

This could be fun. I will tell you the thing I immediately thought of.

The Look.

I'm going to say most D-types are able to do this (switches in D-type mode, as well).

It's that look that you get when you know you are crossing a line or if you are fucking up. It may even be something that tells you that you are about to get something and you may not be ready for it (so stay on your toes).

BatDaddy has a Look he gives me when I say or do something stupid. It stems from his Old School Goth roots. That snarky and sarcastic look that just makes me go "Oh fuck." Sometimes I know what I did. You can tell, usually. It's that Look that makes you reign yourself back in.

I've even gotten a variety of Looks from other D-types (besides BatDaddy). I know everyone is capable of giving that Look, but D-types just do it so much better.

Not all Looks are of an angry sort. There is also another Look. That'd be the bedroom eyes. I don't get this one very often (we have our reasons). That's a Look that makes you shudder and shiver in all the best of ways. You know what's coming with this Look. It's not a strictly D-type Look. A s-type can totally do this look, but if you're not careful it could be (possibly) considered Topping from the bottom. If you have an opinion on this thought, feel free to leave a comment. I'd love to hear it.

Another thing that I feel like most D-types seem to possess is an almost leader-like quality. If you don't know how to lead, you probably need to learn. I'm not a D-type (but I do switch on occasion) but I know that if I am put into the proper situation (a D-type situation that is) I know exactly what I want and how to make decisions for my s-types.

This type of command is something beautiful to behold. If you ever get a chance to really see a proper (I'm not saying "true D-type" becuase that seems a bit... judgey. I suppose proper is judgey, too, a bit. But it's easier than saying any "one twue way") D-type in action, take notes. This person will know what they are doing and what they want done. I suppose you could say that they possess "Decisiveness."

We s-types have our own decisiveness. But most of us would rather have someone to give us tips or rule over us because we've had so much of it in another aspect of life. We want to give up our control. Let our D-types be our brain for a while. They'll let us know what we are eating, what hygeine or makeup they prefer, our clothing, or anything really. Not all D-types are that strict, but you get the idea. BatDaddy actually prefers for me to wear makeup when I leave the house. He likes the way I do it and He approves. There have been a couple of times when He looks at my outfits and puts the whoa to it. I have a tendency to wear rather crazy outfits or clash on purpose.

But, I digress. There are many things that most D-types have in common with each other. You just really have to look at them in a certain way.

I suppose that's all for that.

Tell us what you think about it!!! I'd love to hear some D-types views on what other D-types are like if that's possible. S-types, I know you're there. I'd love to see your comments.

Lots of love,
-Harvest Hellion

Monday, July 11, 2016

TMI Tuesday-- 7/12/2016

1. Have you ever orgasmed just by hearing sexy-dirty talk?
No.
 
2. Have you ever tried scissoring?
Nope.

3. Have you ever practiced BDSM on yourself (bondage, nipple clamps, hot wax, etc.)?
Yep. Mostly bondage for fun and some clamps.

4. Have you ever licked or sucked on someone else’s feet or toes? Was it a turn-on for you or were you doing it to please them?
  No, but I occasionally do foot rubs for people. It's not a turn on but it's a service and I love serving.

5. Would you say that you have a sexual fetish? What is it?
I suppose I do. I really love being tied up. Some people have referred to me as Rope Kitten instead of Rope Bunny.

 6. What is the best way for you to orgasm?
I use vibrators. It's the only way I can feel any pressure in my crotchular area because of the nerve pain I have.


Bonus: Do you have a crush on a fellow blogger? Who?
Nope. I don't always read a lot of other bloggers, even. But I do enjoy other blog posts and I read from blogs that I have subscribed to. I dunno I guess the answer is no.

Monday, July 4, 2016

Happy 4th

Happy Independence Day to all my U.S. readers!

Hope you have a lovely time and enjoyed the shows.

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Sunday, July 3, 2016

TMI Tuesdays 6-28-16

Last weeks TMI Tuesdays

  1. When sizing up (assessing) your romantic relationship, is there a couple that you envy? Why? (Can be a couple you know or famous/celebrity couple)

No I don't think there is a couple that I envy. I personally love the relationship that my Owner and I have so I don't see others that way.
 
2. Thinking of your current relationship, which stage are you in? a. Infatuation stage – Intense attraction and an uncontrollable urge to be with each other, strong sexual attraction. b. Understanding stage – You both start getting to know each other better, and everything about your partner interests and fascinates you. c. Moulding stage – You each know what you want in a partner and you start moulding each other to change in effort to create a stronger, lasting relationship. d. If you have made it this far you are in the advanced stages of a relationship, which one best represents the current status of your relationship:
1) Stage of doubt – This is not what you want in a partner, and you have thoughts of ending the relationship.
2) Happy stage – You’ve worked out most of the kinks in your relationship, you know each others flaws and can deal with them. You are comfortable and enjoying the relationship in what you believe will be a long-lasting one.

I would have to say that we are in the Happy stage of the relationship.  We are past moulding and whatnot so it's perfect. We're so great, in my mind. Sure, we have disagreements so there is always room for some form of improvement.


3. If you are not currently in a romantic relationship, at which stage did your last relationship end? (see stages above).

I'm in a romantic relationship so this does not apply.

 

4. Do you think you are too good for your current partner? Why do you feel this way?

HA! No. Not at all. If anything I feel like I need to improve to make the relationship better.

 
5. Write a 25-word love note to your current significant other or to a person with whom you are infatuated .

(I'm not sure I can write 25 words exactly, but)
Dear Batdaddy. I love you with all my heart. I want to be the best that I can be so that I will never let you down. I just want to help you and love you. I hope we are together forever. (Even if that drives you insane. Or me. But probably you. lol)
 
Bonus: Have you ever been obsessively “in love” with someone and perhaps borderline clingy? How did you get over your obsession?

Actually, I'm the clingy one. I try not to be. It's very difficult. I just want to do stuff so that Batdaddy can be proud of me and will love being in love with me, as I am in love with him.

Posting Schedule Ideas

Hi there all.

 It's Sunday, so I have started trying to get back on my schedule. I will be posting on Sundays about various projects and whatnot going on in the community and other things that I find to be important, and on Tuesdays I will continue my posts from the TMI Tuesday projects that are going on. Other than that I will be having random bonus posts throughout the week. There will be a little raffle type thing coming up very soon in honour of my 10k views.

I have not been home so I have been having trouble getting online where I am at.

I have purchased a 4.2oz bottle of Pink Lemonade Sliquid to raffle off. There will be a couple of different ways to earn tickets. I can't wait to see who wins! This is going to be great.

I also will be starting an email list for ease of reading. That way all of my readers can come by my posts through the email list if they so choose. I really like having views on my page, but I like having dedicated readers even more. It's going to be great.

I have a few ideas for things to come. I can't wait to share them with you all.


Thanks guys.
-harvest hellion