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Alone Time + Trust

Hey guys! So I was reading a blog post on one of the blogs and pages that I follow and I became inspired to write this post. You see, my Owner and I don’t get a lot of alone time because of our living conditions and I wanted to write a little bit about that. We live in a small room and are basically stuck in said room with each other 24/7. I don’t drive, so when I want to go somewhere, he has to take me. He doesn’t mind most of the time, but there are days when he just wants a break. Sometimes I let him have these breaks. I go to my clubs and meetings and things with a friend or my mother. I leave him alone at home and he gets to have “man time.” He enjoys these moments and I feel they are vital for our sanity. Unfortunately, I have a tendency to be really clingy, and I’m working on that. This is the main message I want to get across: When your Top feels the need to go out on their own or you are separated for some period of time, your relationship should have a deep t

SJP-- Domestic Service

Time for another SJP: “What do you consider domestic service? Do you enjoy serving or being served in this fashion? What tips do you have for someone learning to love domestics?” http://prompts.submissiveguide.com/609 I consider most household cleansing acts to be domestic service. Things like laundry, dishes, and the like. Then there is cooking and taking care of other things around the house. I basically see it as something a maid would commonly do. I personally enjoy serving in this fashion, because it fulfills me in my own way. I feel like I have accomplished something and made my Owner’s life easier. The easier I can make his life, the better I feel about myself. I think people should really look deep and see that even the little things can be taken as a big thing to someone else, though you should never let another person take advantage of your service. I have had a couple of people criticize how I do things after I do things for them, which really depresses

Early Party and Some Creativity

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Hey everybody! Went to the party last Saturday and had a blast!!! TABU knows how to throw a party. D won the costume contest. I’ll post a little picture with this entry. I won second place in the pumpkin carving contest. Was super happy about that. We won some really cool prizes that people were wanting to have themselves. I was happy about that, but felt bad that I couldn’t share. I like making people happy! (is that a flaw?) Tomorrow I’ll be heading to Dom Depot (if I can get myself out of bed after the crazy day I’ve had today) and will be getting some parts for a rugbeater flogger. It’s going to look super cool, so I will post some pictures of that when I get finished with that as well. I found the plans for it on fet, so I am planning on making it very soon. I can’t wait. This is going to be super cool. Batsz is really encouraging my creative side lately so I’m enjoying that while I can. He’s been doing really well with his creative streak and is running wit

Halloween Incoming!

It’s been a while again. Sorry about that guys. Anyway. May or may not still be a mommy. Some choices have come up and some health issues have come up on my part that I may not be able to commit to those duties properly. There have been other issues that have come up as well, but I am thinking that those are a bit personal and not wanting to share those here at the present time. Just know that I probably won’t be a mommy if I am for very long to begin with. This weekend is the Halloween play party. I was hoping that I would get to play some this party but once again my Owner has chosen not to play or let me play with others. I want to get out there and show him what I can do, but I don’t want him freaking out either. ‘Tis the trouble with having a very vanilla partner. I don’t know. I guess I’m just really needy sometimes…. Most of the time I guess. I just don’t like being seen that way by people I suppose. I have my costume ready for this Saturday, but my Owner do

Possibly a Mommy?

Hello all. :3 I’m up to no good again!!! Tee hee. Well, Batsz and I have had a talk and we’ve decided that maybe we can play more and do things slowly. We always talk about how to do things slowly. What spurred this on was a visit to a class thrown by a local dungeon on Subspace, Subdrop, Aftercare, and etc. Everyone had stories and experiences except for me. I felt a little out of place. I want to be able to have my own stories to share with everyone too. I think with my kitten play, I have my kitten headspace, and I think that is different than subspace. I am not entirely sure that they are the same thing. I’ll have to do some research into that some more. This Friday I get to go to a support group meeting for subs. I love going to those meetings and talking to everyone and generally having an interesting time learning and things. In other news, I will be trying to take on someone as my little girl. She is very sweet. She and I decided that I would make a good