Saturday, August 27, 2016

SJP-- Love In Your Dynamic 8-27-2016

Hello my Little Hellions!

Submissive journal prompt time!!!

Today's prompt is:
"Is love first or second in your dynamic?'

So with the Batdaddy and myself, I believe that love comes first. We haven't been in our dynamic for the longest period of time (shortly before starting this blog actually). I am pet and He is Owner. But this is not the only way we are. We are boyfriend and girlfriend. We have been together for almost eight years now (it will be eight years, ironically, on February 14th, valentine's day which is probably our least favorite holiday, of next year) and it has been absolutely wonderful.

Lately, there have been few problems. But this is normal for most relationships anyway. Mostly it has been my fault. I have not been home and I have working on a lot of projects other than our relationship. I have neglected some duties that He finds are important to him. I am currently doing my best to remedy this situation. So far so good.

We took the test over the five love languages and found out that we are pretty damn different in our ways of expressing our love for each other. For example, His idea of how love works is acts of service and gifts. His lowest score was physical touch. My love language is physical touch (not sexul in my case) and my lowest score was in acts of service and gifts. So we kind of clash in that aspect. It's something that we are working on. I am trying to improve how I serve Him. He is letting me hug Him and make some attempt at cuddling him.

If you would like to take the test over the love languages, follow the lovely link below!:

It's very interesting to see how you both (or all of you, in a poly relationship) want to express yourselves to each other.

That's all for today I think.

Love you guys,
-Harvest Hellion

Tuesday, August 23, 2016

TMI Tuesday- 8-23-2016

1. Do you want a divorce or to leave your present romantic relationship?
No. I'm perfectly fine in my relationship. We have been having a lot of fights lately, but we are doing well. I know we're going to be okay. It's mostly me being insecure because I leave so much and him being upset because I'm always gone.

2. Do you think your relationship needs couples therapy?
 No. Well, sometimes I think that. But who doesn't? It's not like everyone has the most perfect relationship in the world.
3. If your relationship needs fine-tuning, what would you do to tweak it?
 I would tweak the fact that I would change is that we both had more agreeable ways to love each other. We took the love languages quiz and we have completely opposite languages. He likes service and gifts and doesn't like physical touch as much; I like physical touch and don't like service or gifts as much.
4. Is your relationship over or are you just in a bad phase? How long has the bad phase lasted so far?
 Not at all. Just a difficult patch.
5. What kind of relationship do you envision will make you happy?
This one. Just probably when we both get more time.
6. Are you seeing someone new?

Bonus: What major regret do you have so far in your life? Is it too late to change it?

There are people in my life that I'm currently questioning as a regret. There is one thing that I regret at the moment but at the same point in time I am the person that believes things that need to happen will happen and have to happen.

Monday, August 15, 2016

TMI Tuesday- 8/15/2016

1. Where is the most beautiful place on earth and why?
Most old cemeteries. There is beauty in death.

2. How old is the most expired item in your fridge?
 A couple days I think. It's milk.

3. What’s under your bed?
The floor! Ha ha. BatDaddy and I have a wonderful king sized bed that was too big for our original bed setup so we have it on the floor at the moment, until we can get it a proper setup. We're thinking we'll make tombstone and coffin headboard stuff.

4. What is in your pocket?
 I'm sitting around in my underwear. I'm pretty sure I don't have pockets in my underwear. Though it would be super cool if I could have pockets in my underwear. That would be super handy.

5. Which famous person would you like to be best-friends with? Why?
Probably Edgar Allen Poe. I know he's dead, but I bet he was interesting to talk to. His writing is amazing and I feel like I could connect with him on some level. We could be co-authors of a horror blog. LOL.

6. There is now a line of lacy lingerie for men. Would you wear it or like to see your man in it? See here and here 
Honestly, I only want him to wear things that he is comfortable in. If he is comfortable in that and confident, then I would be happy if he did. I do have a fantasy of seeing him in a dress someday. The way the dress looks is different every time (That's what you get when you date someone who likes drag queens and designing clothes and costumes) so it's always different and each time he does lip syncs to my favorite songs. Is that too weird? I mean, I am genderfluid and pansexual, but I feel like I relate to people who are like me more. I suppose that's normal, but I'm going about it in an alternative manner.

Bonus: Think The Olympics. Men’s gymnastic uniforms–sexy or goofy? Discuss!
I have honestly not really been watching the Olympics. I've honestly only seen a couple of the different things that have been going on. I watched some of the men's volleyball (was it men's?) and that was kind of cool. I really liked the Try Guy's Olympic video so much better though. (Which you can find HERE!!)
I'm not really big on sports. I am wondering if they have or are doing fencing. That is a sport that I can get behind, being the one sport that I actually participated in. I don't usually watch the Olympics though. I do enjoy the opening ceremonies.

Friday, August 12, 2016

TMI Tuesday- 08/09/2016

The theme is "Let's Get Goofy!!!!"

1. Whasssssuuuupppppp?

2. Where’s Waldo?
He was with Prince Albert in a can. They are lovers.

3. The best part of waking up is?
A bag of dicks. (What? You said goofy!)

4. Got Milk?
Yes actually. Chocolate to be specific.

5. Have you driven a Ford lately?
Bitch I can't drive.

6. What would you do for a Klondike bar?
Go to a store and buy one, obvi.

7. Pardon me, do you have any Grey Poupon?
"I like my rats with a little grey poop on."

8. Do you Yahoo?
Only in the bedroom. *ba dum tiss*

Bonus:  Is a picture worth a thousand words? Elaborate.

Do I have to write it in a thousand words?

Thursday, August 4, 2016

Kinky RSS!

Hello, my Little Hellions! I added an rss subscription option in the sidebar! Let me know if it's working. I hope you enjoy it. I'm going over some post ideas and will hopefully have more great content for you soon! Love you guys, -harvest hellion Resident Support Kitten

Wednesday, August 3, 2016

My Giveaway For 10k! Finally!

Hey there my little hellions!

I have a raffle starting up in a few hours and that will run until about the eleventh of this month. So I will be sending out a super cool prize for the lucky winner.

The prize is a 4.2 oz bottle of Pink Lemonade Sliquid lube. It's vegan friendly, too!!

I hope you guys like it. I can't wait to see who the happy winner is.

Lots of love,
-harvest hellion
Resident Support Kitten

Monday, August 1, 2016

TMI Tuesday-- 8/02/2016

1. Your thoughts–is oral sex cheating on your partner?
I think that oral is cheating. It's a sexual act, therefore it is cheating.

2. What is cheating to you?
Cheating (to me) is when your partner(s) find other people to give their attention to.

3. Does your partner know you masturbate? What do they think about that?
I'm not sure. I've never asked him. I'm very private about it. He's never really said anything to me about it or anything so I haven't really brought it up.

4. Think about the best sex you’ve ever had. Why do you consider it the best, what makes it so?
The best sex I've ever had is the first time BatDaddy and I had sex because I got to be in costume and I like to remember that day forever.

5. When you have nightmares, do you call out someone’s name?
No. Usually I just sit up or clutch something or BatDaddy if he is close by.

6. When you’re having an orgasm, do you scream a name?
Nope. I hardly make any noise at all. Is that weird?

Bonus: Which best fits your usual reason for masturbating:
a. Boredom
b. Stress relief
c. Saw someone/something sexy and you need to act out a sexual fantasy
d. It’s just what I do

It's probably just B. I have a lot of sexual issues, so it's frustrating to me.