So I hit a random prompt in the submissive guide prompts and it asked me about what I think about alcohol in a D/s relationship. Well, what I think is that you are not entirely there when you are drinking. Even if you think you are completely unimpaired, it still has its effects on you. There is dehydration and a variety of other things. Why would you want to jeopardize a safe relationship with this sort of thing?
We stress in the community Safe, Sane, and Consensual and also Risk Aware Consensual Kink. How can you be Risk Aware with an impaired brain? I’m not saying that you should stop drinking all together (you can ask anyone, I can be a bit of a boozehound) or even stopping the things that make you happy. But if you are scening/sessioning or something then you should be Risk Aware and Safe/Sane.
Let me know what you guys think. I’m out.