The Kinky Kitten

1. Tell us your top 3 flaws and shortcomings. I suppose my top three flaws are my mental handicaps. Mostly my misophonia. I can't deal with people like a regular person because of it. I'm usually mentally slow because of my medication. And then there is the fact that I forget everything most of the time and/or block things out from my memory so much that I have holes where days are supposed to be. Blogging has helped me immensely in seeing what sort of things I have been doing each week. TMI Tuesday is really great about this. That's one of the reasons I participate in it. 2. Who do you look up to the most: – Professionally? I don't really know. I tend to look up to other bloggers who are successful. I get insanely green about seeing blogs better than mine. I just want a nice blog, people. I want comments and fun. That's not such a bad thing. – Sexually? I don't look up to anyone for this. Seriously. I wouldn't know what I'd be looking up to that ...

Hi guys. Harvest here! I'm here to talk about collars. Collars are important in the BDSM lifestyle AND in kitten play. You can wear a collar if you want to, you can wear a collar if your Owner/Top/Etc wants you to, and you don't have to wear a collar if you don't want to, or even if your Owner/Top/Etc doesn't want you to you don't have to. There are many variables. Collars are for everyone. There is not set rule that you have to do a certain thing to wear a collar, though it is said that a collar with a lock on it is said to be a way to indicate that you are owned and in a permanent BDSM relationship. This is not always true though. I wear day collars. I have not quite earned the right to wear a permanent collar. I have considered it, but I just don't know how to bring it up to the Batdaddy. He is always very busy and I don't really have the time to really bring it up with him either since we are both kind of doing our own thing. I might bring it up with h...

1. How many people do you really trust? Not very many. I keep having people be complete dicks to me about everything. I can't say I could really count either. I do know that Batdaddy is someone that I trust. He is always there for me. 2. What are you excited for?   I'm sort of excited for some of the conventions that are coming up. I'm a huge nerd and love to cosplay. We are going to a convention in June and I will (hopefully) finish my Princess Kakyuu (from Sailor Moon) cosplay in time for that. 3. Have you had sex today? Ha! No. I haven't had sex in a while and my parts refuse to let me have sex. I wouldn't make a good sex slave for sure because it's pretty much impossible to have sex with me. I've got some doctor appointments lined up to see if that can be fixed. 4. When was the last time you talked to someone until you fell asleep? What relation are they to you? Last night I suppose. I was talking to Batdaddy and He was getting really irritat...

http://prompts.submissiveguide.com/412 Hi everyone! Harvest again. Today's Submissive Journal Prompt (SJP) is: "Do you ever experience burnout? How do you handle it? Do you take measures to avoid it?" I DO experience burnout. There are times when I can't really feel like I function properly. I have mental issues which cause me problems on top of this. I think they kind of compound the burnout in a way. Depression can become quite the problem if you don't take care of it as soon as you can. It runs in my family so I am used to the effects it can have on people. As a teenager, I told myself if I made it to the age of 25 I would be happy. I was, at the time, very suicidal. I hated everything about my life. I felt like my friends would leave me at the drop of a hat. My boyfriends were never "really there" for me when I thought they should be (even though they actually were! I just didn't realize it at the time). I had done so many things to injure my...

SJP----Topping? http://prompts.submissiveguide.com/709 Hi everyone! It's time for another Submissive Journal Prompt!!! Today's prompt is: "Have you ever been asked by your Owner to switch and play the top with another submissive?" I have not!!! My Owner doesn't really feel like it's okay for me to really Top someone, unless it's a non-sexual kind of relationship. I have topped before. I topped a babygirl. The experience was kind of brutal and put me under a lot of stress. She was very cruel to me and actually mocked me at every chance she could. I'm not sure if she was trying to brat or what, but we clashed so much. I was happy just being her friend. Since then, we don't speak. We've unfriended on fetlife and such. I see she is going to events and I do my best to avoid her. It's very rare we run into each other, so it's not really a big deal. We run in relatively separate circles. We'll wave and smile at each other if we see ea...

1. In winter does your sexual appetite go on a fast? I don't really have much of a sexual appetite to begin with. There are few things that turn me on, so people really have to work hard on it to get me started. 2. What do you do to kick-start your libido when in a sexual slump? I can turn my libido on and off. I choose either to be turned on or no. I'm not sure if there are other people out there who are like me in that. If there are, I would love to hear from you! Feel free to shoot me a comment or a message! 3. What is your favorite type of foreplay (to receive)? Biting. I LOVE biting. 4. Mutual masturbation–yes or no? What is your technique? Hmm. I approve, but I've never done it, personally. Maybe Batdaddy and I should try it. X3 5. Do you give your lover massage? How often? How long? Of course! I give him a massage any time he wants one. Sometimes I give him massages when he isn't expecting it to show him how much I appreciate him. They don't...

Happy Seventh Year Anniversary to my BatDaddy!!! May we have many exciting years to come, and a love to last several lifetimes. Also, Happy Valentine's Day to everyone else. Sorry it's so late in the day that I"m saying it.

Hello all! Harvest here. It's good to see you again! I have been reading a book lately and it has me thinking (which isn't always a good thing so bear with me.) I read a lot of books but this one was recommended by one of the sites that I like to frequent about submissive information. The website that I am referring to is called Submissive Guide. I am a member of the journal prompts that they have there, and that is why I have so many things on SJP (submissive journal prompts) that go along with it. You can find Submissive Guide at http://www.submissiveguide.com I really suggest looking into it for new submissives or ones trying to expand their knowledge. So I have been going around and asking various submissives/slaves/submissive switches/bottoms/etc about what it means when people say that Submission is a gift. I have seen two meanings: 1- Submission is a gift/talent that a person can have. (and) 2- Submission is a gift to be given to a dominant/top/etc. We got into some se...

1. List 3 benefits of living with your significant other. -Having someone to hand you toilet paper when you're out -Having someone to cook if you don't feel like it -Having someone to tuck you in at night (or look for aliens, if you're paranoid like I am) 2. Have you ever reunited with a past lover and begun a relationship? Was the latest relationship as friends or lovers? I tried to rekindle a relationship and the guy gave me a flower for valentine's day, that he got from a girl. The relationship I'm in now started as friends and just kind of blossomed. It's perfect. 3. Do you think someone is more sexy if they regularly read books or work out regularly at a gym? I think it's more sexy to read books. You can work out if you want to (I don't always work out, so why should you?) but it's not necessary. 4. How likely do you think it is that your marriage will end in divorce? I'm not married but we're too stubborn to divorce. We bot...

SJP—Domestics! http://prompts.submissiveguide.com/97 Hello all! It’s time for another journal prompt! Today’s journal prompt is: “Do you enjoy domestic chores? Which ones do you like more than others?” So, to answer the question, yes I do enjoy domestic chores, at least to a degree. I have a hard time loading laundry into and out of the machines, but I like to fold the laundry. Especially when it’s warm and I can snuggle up in it. It takes me several trips to get laundry from one room to the other, depending on how large of a load the laundry is. I try to do laundry pretty frequently to keep up with the demand (and don’t you know it’s always in demand!?). Dishes are one of those things that I have to do by hand. I have never really had dishwashers, and even when I have had the pleasure of having a dishwasher I still washed a lot of the dishes by hand. There are just some things that you have to do on your own. You know, to cut the ick and all that. I really like ...

Hello all. Harvest here! So, since everyone’s been hopping on the condom train for Valentine’s Day, I figured I’d make a post about some safer sex practices that I have done some research on, mostly about condoms. It’s not something that’s over the board popular, some guys I’ve been with say that they can’t feel anything through them, but I have to wonder how true that is, since they can be extremely thin and sensual. As a disclaimer, I am not a doctor, therefore one should always consult with a doctor before engaging in sexual activity/etc.  As far as safety goes, condoms are the way to go. There are many different kinds with various traits that you can get. For example there are ones with different lubricants in them like warming or cooling lubrication, ribbed condoms, thinner condoms, condoms made of different materials (in case you are allergic to one type of condom there are a few others that you can use), and condoms of varying sizes! It’s a great thing to in...

Hey everyone! Harvest here. It’s been so long, but I am back. I can’t wait to post about stuff again. I’m going to be working on some projects this year and can’t wait for you guys to hear about what I can talk about them. I’m still unsure if I can, but I will share other stuff either way. So it will be stuff that I’m allowed to post at least. My Owner and I are still going strong. We both work now and we are as close as ever. There are still times where we have confusion going on, but for the most part we are great. We are still living with His family, so things are difficult to do around here, but we do what we can and how we can. I want to write some more about pet play, and will be doing so when I can, so expect it!!! I will also be writing more about gender issues and mental health issues from my perspective as a genderfluid with various mental illnesses (It’s too many to count, seriously. Ha ha). So be prepared for a year of new adventures and all kinds of fu...