tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15616120563863383652024-03-05T12:59:34.810-08:00The Kinky KittenHarvest Hellionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09515122358412856496noreply@blogger.comBlogger93125truetag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561612056386338365.post-77607739699898875772022-07-17T10:21:00.005-07:002022-07-17T10:24:22.055-07:00SJP 7.17.2022<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Submissive Guide Journaling Prompt for the Day. </span></p><p style="background-color: white; color: #1c1c1c; text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Today's Journal Prompt<br />July 17, 2022<br /><span face="Verdana, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #1c1c1c; font-size: 22px;">What do you know of your Dominant's reasons for the rules and orders you are to follow? Why does he request these things? What is he trying to teach you?</span><span face="Verdana, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #1c1c1c; font-size: 22px;"><br /></span><span face="Verdana, sans-serif" style="background-color: white; color: #1c1c1c; font-size: 22px;"><br /></span></span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span face="Verdana, sans-serif" style="color: #1c1c1c;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: 22px;">My Owner/Handler/Master/Dominant/Top (Batsz) is very strict in his own ways. We have a pretty much non-sexual relationship. I also have a girlfriend, but she is long distance. We haven't fully explored what our dynamic is just yet.</span></span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span face="Verdana, sans-serif" style="color: #1c1c1c;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: 22px;"><br /></span></span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span face="Verdana, sans-serif" style="color: #1c1c1c;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: 22px;">Anyway, my Owner is pretty strict on many things. Most of what he is strict on is things like having food when he wants it or at a specific time, making sure the house is clean to his liking, taking care of chores that he wants done.... That sort of thing.</span></span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span face="Verdana, sans-serif" style="color: #1c1c1c;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: 22px;"><br /></span></span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span face="Verdana, sans-serif" style="color: #1c1c1c;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: 22px;">I'd say he is trying to teach me cleanliness and the ability to take care of myself. He himself is very independent so it's something he is very passionate about.</span></span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span face="Verdana, sans-serif" style="color: #1c1c1c;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: 22px;"><br /></span></span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span face="Verdana, sans-serif" style="color: #1c1c1c;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: 22px;">I'm not sure about with my girlfriend. Like I mentioned, we are kind of just figuring things out there. Will keep you updated as we go along. It's long-distance so that's a little more difficult to do things, but not completely impossible.</span></span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span face="Verdana, sans-serif" style="color: #1c1c1c;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: 22px;"><br /></span></span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span face="Verdana, sans-serif" style="color: #1c1c1c;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: 22px;">Anyway, Ta~</span></span></p><p style="text-align: left;"><span face="Verdana, sans-serif" style="color: #1c1c1c;"><span style="background-color: white; font-family: inherit; font-size: 22px;">-Harvest</span></span></p>Harvest Hellionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09515122358412856496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561612056386338365.post-78169656239743546212022-07-10T02:45:00.002-07:002022-07-10T02:45:25.344-07:00After a HiatusHi there all!<br /><br />It's been a HOT minute since I've posted. I'm considering coming back. Things have changed immensely since I last posted. I've done quite a bit with my life and I'm considering getting back into blogging here again for funsies.<div><br /></div><div>If you're interested in me coming back, you can let me know and that might sway my opinion a smidgeon more.</div><div><br /></div><div>Purrs and Kisses.</div><div>-Harvest Hellion</div>Harvest Hellionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09515122358412856496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561612056386338365.post-81894234160685127332016-08-27T16:55:00.001-07:002016-08-27T16:55:40.446-07:00SJP-- Love In Your Dynamic 8-27-2016<a href="http://prompts.submissiveguide.com/314">http://prompts.submissiveguide.com/314</a><br />
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Hello my Little Hellions! <br />
<br />Submissive journal prompt time!!!<br />
<br />Today's prompt is:<br />"Is love first or second in your dynamic?'<br />
<br />So with the Batdaddy and myself, I believe that love comes first. We haven't been in our dynamic for the longest period of time (shortly before starting this blog actually). I am pet and He is Owner. But this is not the only way we are. We are boyfriend and girlfriend. We have been together for almost eight years now (it will be eight years, ironically, on February 14th, valentine's day which is probably our least favorite holiday, of next year) and it has been absolutely wonderful.<br />
<br />Lately, there have been few problems. But this is normal for most relationships anyway. Mostly it has been my fault. I have not been home and I have working on a lot of projects other than our relationship. I have neglected some duties that He finds are important to him. I am currently doing my best to remedy this situation. So far so good.<br />
<br />We took the test over the five love languages and found out that we are pretty damn different in our ways of expressing our love for each other. For example, His idea of how love works is acts of service and gifts. His lowest score was physical touch. My love language is physical touch (not sexul in my case) and my lowest score was in acts of service and gifts. So we kind of clash in that aspect. It's something that we are working on. I am trying to improve how I serve Him. He is letting me hug Him and make some attempt at cuddling him.<br />
<br />If you would like to take the test over the love languages, follow the lovely link below!:<br /><a href="http://www.5lovelanguages.com/profile/">http://www.5lovelanguages.com/profile/</a><br />
<br />It's very interesting to see how you both (or all of you, in a poly relationship) want to express yourselves to each other.<br />
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<br />That's all for today I think.<br />
<br />Love you guys,<br />-Harvest Hellion<br />Harvest Hellionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09515122358412856496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561612056386338365.post-66050701739877400562016-08-23T20:44:00.000-07:002016-08-23T20:44:26.002-07:00TMI Tuesday- 8-23-2016<span style="color: #324503;"><strong>1. Do you want a divorce or to leave your present romantic relationship?</strong></span><br />
<span style="color: #324503;"><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">No. I'm perfect<span style="font-family: inherit;">ly fine in <span style="font-family: inherit;">my relationship. <span style="font-family: inherit;">We have been having a lot of fights lately, but we are doing well. <span style="font-family: inherit;">I know we're going to be oka<span style="font-family: inherit;">y. It's mostly me being insecure because I l<span style="font-family: inherit;">eave so mu<span style="font-family: inherit;">ch and him being upset be<span style="font-family: inherit;">caus<span style="font-family: inherit;">e I'm always gone.</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><strong><br /></strong></span><br />
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<span style="color: #324503;"><strong> 2. Do you think your relationship needs couples therapy?</strong></span><br />
<span style="color: #324503;"><strong> </strong><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="color: black;">No. Well, sometimes I think that<span style="font-family: inherit;">. But who doesn't<span style="font-family: inherit;">? It's <span style="font-family: inherit;">not like eve<span style="font-family: inherit;">ryone has the most perfect relationship in the world.</span></span></span></span></span></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #324503;"><strong> 3. If your relationship needs fine-tuning, what would you do to tweak it?</strong></span><br />
<span style="color: #324503;"><strong> </strong><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="color: black;">I would t<span style="font-family: inherit;">weak the fac<span style="font-family: inherit;">t that I would change is that we both had more agreeable ways to love each other. <span style="font-family: inherit;">We took the love lan<span style="font-family: inherit;">guages <span style="font-family: inherit;">qu<span style="font-family: inherit;">iz and we have c<span style="font-family: inherit;">omplet<span style="font-family: inherit;">ely opposite languages. He likes service<span style="font-family: inherit;"> and gif<span style="font-family: inherit;">ts<span style="font-family: inherit;"> and <span style="font-family: inherit;">doesn't like </span>physical touch as much<span style="font-family: inherit;">; I like physi<span style="font-family: inherit;">cal touch<span style="font-family: inherit;"> and don't like ser<span style="font-family: inherit;">vice or gifts as much.</span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #324503;"><strong> 4. Is your relationship over or are you just in a bad phase? How long has the bad phase lasted so far?</strong></span><br />
<span style="color: #324503;"><strong> </strong><span style="color: black;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">Not at all. Just a <span style="font-family: inherit;">difficult patch.</span></span></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #324503;"><strong> 5. What kind of relationship do you envision will make you happy?</strong></span><br />
<span style="color: #324503;"><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="color: black;">This one. Just probably when we both get more time.</span></span><strong> </strong></span><br />
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<span style="color: #324503;"><strong> 6. Are you seeing someone new?</strong></span><br />
<span style="color: #324503;"><strong> </strong><span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="color: black;">No<span style="font-family: inherit;">?</span></span></span></span><br />
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<span style="color: red;"><strong>Bonus</strong></span>: What major regret do you have so far in your life? Is it too late to change it?<br />
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There are people in my life that I'm currently questioning as a regret. There is one thing that I regret at the moment but at the same point in time I am the person that believes things that need to happen will happen and have to happen. Harvest Hellionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09515122358412856496noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561612056386338365.post-59477076675314130632016-08-15T20:27:00.000-07:002016-08-15T20:27:35.988-07:00TMI Tuesday- 8/15/20161. Where is the most beautiful place on earth and why?<br />
Most old cemeteries. There is beauty in death. <br />
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2. How old is the most expired item in your fridge?<br />
A couple days I think. It's milk.<br />
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3. What’s under your bed?<br />
The floor! Ha ha. BatDaddy and I have a wonderful king sized bed that was too big for our original bed setup so we have it on the floor at the moment, until we can get it a proper setup. We're thinking we'll make tombstone and coffin headboard stuff.<br />
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4. What is in your pocket?<br />
I'm sitting around in my underwear. I'm pretty sure I don't have pockets in my underwear. Though it would be super cool if I could have pockets in my underwear. That would be super handy.<br />
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5. Which famous person would you like to be best-friends with? Why?<br />
Probably Edgar Allen Poe. I know he's dead, but I bet he was interesting to talk to. His writing is amazing and I feel like I could connect with him on some level. We could be co-authors of a horror blog. LOL.<br />
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6. There is now a line of lacy lingerie for men. Would you wear it or like to see your man in it? See <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BDbKkwmm7_m/" target="_blank">here</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BEErUg0G76F/?taken-by=bymenagerie" target="_blank">here </a><br />
Honestly, I only want him to wear things that he is comfortable in. If he is comfortable in that and confident, then I would be happy if he did. I do have a fantasy of seeing him in a dress someday. The way the dress looks is different every time (That's what you get when you date someone who likes drag queens and designing clothes and costumes) so it's always different and each time he does lip syncs to my favorite songs. Is that too weird? I mean, I am genderfluid and pansexual, but I feel like I relate to people who are like me more. I suppose that's normal, but I'm going about it in an alternative manner. <br />
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<span style="color: red;"><strong>Bonus</strong></span>: Think The Olympics. Men’s gymnastic uniforms–sexy or goofy? Discuss!<br />
I have honestly not really been watching the Olympics. I've honestly only seen a couple of the different things that have been going on. I watched some of the men's volleyball (was it men's?) and that was kind of cool. I really liked the Try Guy's Olympic video so much better though. (Which you can find <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e_CTxlsCL7E" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">HERE</a>!!)<br />
I'm not really big on sports. I am wondering if they have or are doing fencing. That is a sport that I can get behind, being the one sport that I actually participated in. I don't usually watch the Olympics though. I do enjoy the opening ceremonies. Harvest Hellionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09515122358412856496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561612056386338365.post-17125034639781773902016-08-12T21:44:00.002-07:002016-08-12T21:47:15.334-07:00TMI Tuesday- 08/09/2016The theme is "Let's Get Goofy!!!!" <br />
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1. Whasssssuuuupppppp?<br />
WHAT UP BITCHEEEEZ.<br />
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2. Where’s Waldo?<br />
He was with Prince Albert in a can. They are lovers.<br />
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3. The best part of waking up is?<br />
A bag of dicks. (What? You said goofy!)<br />
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4. Got Milk?<br />
Yes actually. Chocolate to be specific. <br />
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5. Have you driven a Ford lately?<br />
Bitch I can't drive.<br />
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6. What would you do for a Klondike bar?<br />
Go to a store and buy one, obvi.<br />
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7. Pardon me, do you have any Grey Poupon?<br />
"I like my rats with a little grey poop on."<br />
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8. Do you Yahoo?<br />
Only in the bedroom. *ba dum tiss*<br />
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<span style="color: red;"><b>Bonus</b></span>: Is a picture worth a thousand words? Elaborate.<br />
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Do I have to write it in a thousand words? Harvest Hellionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09515122358412856496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561612056386338365.post-67709200233899596572016-08-04T11:16:00.001-07:002016-08-04T11:16:16.341-07:00Kinky RSS!Hello, my Little Hellions!
I added an rss subscription option in the sidebar! Let me know if it's working. I hope you enjoy it.
I'm going over some post ideas and will hopefully have more great content for you soon!
Love you guys,
-harvest hellion
Resident Support Kitten Harvest Hellionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09515122358412856496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561612056386338365.post-55187359157205597872016-08-03T17:55:00.002-07:002016-08-03T17:55:58.412-07:00My Giveaway For 10k! Finally!Hey there my little hellions!<br />
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I have a raffle starting up in a few hours and that will run until about the eleventh of this month. So I will be sending out a super cool prize for the lucky winner.<br />
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The prize is a 4.2 oz bottle of Pink Lemonade Sliquid lube. It's vegan friendly, too!!<br />
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I hope you guys like it. I can't wait to see who the happy winner is.<br />
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Lots of love,<br />
-harvest hellion<br />
Resident Support Kitten<br />
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<br />Harvest Hellionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09515122358412856496noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561612056386338365.post-33607206011559653782016-08-01T20:14:00.002-07:002016-08-01T20:14:43.470-07:00TMI Tuesday-- 8/02/2016
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1. Your thoughts–is oral sex cheating on your partner?<br />
I think that oral is cheating. It's a sexual act, therefore it is cheating.<br />
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2. What is cheating to you?<br />Cheating (to me) is when your partner(s) find other people to give their attention to.<br />
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3. Does your partner know you masturbate? What do they think about that?<br />I'm not sure. I've never asked him. I'm very private about it. He's never really said anything to me about it or anything so I haven't really brought it up.<br />
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4. Think about the best sex you’ve ever had. Why do you consider it the best, what makes it so?<br />The best sex I've ever had is the first time BatDaddy and I had sex because I got to be in costume and I like to remember that day forever.<br />
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5. When you have nightmares, do you call out someone’s name?<br />No. Usually I just sit up or clutch something or BatDaddy if he is close by.<br />
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6. When you’re having an orgasm, do you scream a name?<br />
Nope. I hardly make any noise at all. Is that weird? <br />
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<span style="color: red;"><strong>Bonus</strong></span>: Which best fits your usual reason for masturbating:<br />
a. Boredom<br />
b. Stress relief<br />
c. Saw someone/something sexy and you need to act out a sexual fantasy<br />
d. It’s just what I do<br />
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It's probably just B. I have a lot of sexual issues, so it's frustrating to me. Harvest Hellionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09515122358412856496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561612056386338365.post-80616983567351635392016-07-25T23:16:00.000-07:002016-07-25T23:16:02.842-07:00TMI Tuesday---- 07/26/20161. What’s the hardest thing you’ve ever done?<br />
Getting the courage to go on stage. And I have done it several times since then!<br />
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2. What did you do growing up that got you into trouble?<br />
Reading and playing online past bedtime (I was such a problem child! lol)<br />
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3. When was the last time you had an amazing meal? What was it? Why was it amazing for you?<br />
Oh, I tend to think each meal is amazing in it's own way. Just imagine what those brave souls who first said "Gee, that creature looks interesting. Let's kill it, drown it in spices and whatnot, and put it in our mouths" had to go through to give us what we have today.<br />
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4. What’s the best/worst gift you’ve ever given/received?<br />
The best gift I've received is the gift of friendship (Ha. Right?).<br />
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5. What do you miss most about being a kid?<br />
Oh goddess. Not paying bills. Totally.<br />
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<span style="color: red;"><strong>Bonus</strong></span>: What is something you learned in the last week?<br />
I learned about different types of snakes. And that was just in the last hour! I always have so much fun learning new things. Harvest Hellionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09515122358412856496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561612056386338365.post-9324340983391107572016-07-22T22:01:00.002-07:002016-07-22T22:01:38.585-07:00Happy Birthday Harvest 2016Happy Birthday to me.<br />
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Just wanted to revel in that glow.<br />
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Thank you my Little Hellions for being with me another year. I hope this one is amazing.<br />
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Lots of love,<br />
-Harvest HellionHarvest Hellionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09515122358412856496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561612056386338365.post-665144776312929672016-07-18T20:47:00.000-07:002016-07-18T20:47:08.855-07:00TMI Tuesday-- 07/19/2016<span style="color: #20668c;"><span style="color: black;">Hello my Little Hellions~!! It's TMI Tuesday time again! Here's some stuff to enjoy!!</span></span><span style="color: #20668c;"></span><br />
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<strong><span style="color: #20668c;">1. Hi there. Tell us about your job and what you do?</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: #20668c;"><span style="color: black;">I work at a fabrics and crafts store. I love it so much. I also volunteer with the local community as much as I can, garnering me the self-titled title of "Resident Support Kitten" I love all of these things and I try to stay as upbeat as possible. The other day I actually had an oops and was rude to a customer on accident. I had (still have as of this writing) a migraine/headache since 7-8-2016 so I was having a hard time getting my attitude in check. I'm so sorry to that person. I would hate to have been them. I NEVER get rude. I get snarky, but never rude.</span></span><br />
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<strong><span style="color: #20668c;"> 2. What piece of advice would you give to a co-worker?</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: #20668c;"><span style="color: black;">If I had to give advice, I would say for them to always keep a positive outlook (especially at work) and give at least one compliment to each customer. Not only does this brighten their day, it gives you a feeling of fulfillment as well. (LOVE LOVE LOVE)</span></span><br />
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<strong><span style="color: #20668c;"> 3. What 2 pieces of advice would you give to a new blogger?</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: #20668c;"><span style="color: black;">To a new blogger, I would tell them that they should invest time in all forms of social media and to connect with your readers. People come to our blogs for creative and interesting views. Share what you can and live your truth.</span></span><br />
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<strong><span style="color: #20668c;"> 4. What 1 piece of advice would you give to a veteran blogger–someone blogging for more than 3 years?</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: #20668c;"><span style="color: black;">Oh, my. I don't think I would give them advice. Maybe I would tell them to stick with it. It's worth it. Bloggers offer a unique service with all sorts of interesting things. We are the Bards of the Internet RPG (lol, sorry I'm a total nerd). Keep it up and spread the love. Why would anyone want to read a blog about things people hate??</span></span><br />
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<strong><span style="color: #20668c;"> 5. What do you hope visitors to your blog see, take away, feel or learn?</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: #20668c;"><span style="color: black;">I want my visitors to come away with a laugh, a smile, and maybe some interesting information. I want them to spread the love and to possibly have a safer time. I'm still deciding if I think SSC (Safe, Sane, Consensual) or RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) is more for me. But I think my readers need to form their own opinions.</span></span><br />
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<strong><span style="color: #20668c;"> 6. Have you ever had something happen to you that you thought was bad but it turned out to be for the best?</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: #20668c;"><span style="color: black;">I was raped. Strangely it turned out okay. I hate going into it. Because of my rape, I now have the best boyfriend/Owner in the world. He is my rock, my world, and my life. I live to serve him and please him as much as I physically can.</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: red;"><strong>Bonus:</strong></span> What was the last experience that made you a stronger person?<br />
I'm not sure. I don't see myself as a very strong person. I kind of fake being strong when I have to and then I go off somewhere and cry. Although, I think most of the time I cry anyway. I cry a LOT. I'm a very emotional person. I suppose I'm somewhat of an empath but I don't really see myself that way. I just see myself as someone who cares (probably too much). Harvest Hellionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09515122358412856496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561612056386338365.post-61103804744151201392016-07-14T14:48:00.004-07:002016-07-25T21:17:09.373-07:00SJP-- A Hard Day's WorkHello my Little Hellions!! It's time for another prompt!!!<br />
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http://prompts.submissiveguide.com/66<br />
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The prompt is as follows: "What is a “hard day’s work” for you?"<br />
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HA. This is interesting. If you saw my work and volunteering schedule you would see that I am busy probably six out of seven days of the week, with the seventh being the day I spend with BatDaddy running all sorts of errands. So I guess you could say that every day is a busy one.<br />
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For me, I tend to sleep a lot (my body doesn't recover as fast as other people's bodies for the most part). On the days I do not sleep I tend to spend a lot of time either reading or writing. My depression tends to keep me from doing much.<br />
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For example, Friday mornings I go to the one doctor. Noon I have lunch. Then I go to either a doctor or a physical therapist. After that, I usually hang with a friend and get dinner afterwards. Then we travel to her house that's about an hour away. The Thursday before I have my bags packed becuase on Fridays I stay the night so we can go to classes on Saturdays. If I can fit some time in, I work on my reading or writing in between everything, whilst going through music the entire day to find things I like or that I can get inspiration from (music is my drug! LOL).<br />
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So I would say that that is a relatively busy day for me. It doesn't always feel like hard work but there are days when it just kind of collapses on top of me and messes with me.<br />
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Lots of love,<br />
-Harvest HellionHarvest Hellionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09515122358412856496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561612056386338365.post-37034425453853005352016-07-14T14:43:00.001-07:002016-07-17T18:48:14.668-07:00I'm Not a Doctor, Nor Do I Play One on TVHi my Little Hellions.<br />
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So I wanted to talk about something important. I want to talk about medical sheets. Something like a pill minder even. (Disclaimer: I am not a doctor, nor do I play one on tv. If you have health issues of any sort, please see an actual doctor. I implore you.)<br />
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When an s-type and a D-type get together (or two switches or even two vanillas or even more if you're poly) there will be negotiations. Something that I find is often overlooked is medical history.<br />
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Does your Top know you are diabetic? Does your s-type know you get dizzy spells? Have you ever had any surgeries?<br />
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These are common questions that need to be addressed somehow, and the answer to how to do it is very simple: A brief medical history sheet.<br />
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A good medical history sheet will have what pills you take with what milligram and how often. Definitely add what sort of health issue you have briefly (for example, if you have anxiety in a certain situation like I do, add "Anxiety-Large Crowds"). It will include your surgeries as well. And for some bonus points you should add what doctors you see or where you typically go for treatment.<br />
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You can keep this in your purse or wallet on a sheet of paper. I personally use the "Health" app on my iPhone 6 (I'm an iSheep, lol). There are many different types of apps you can get on your phone to record various things on there that pertain to your health status and whatnot. Do some research on the apps so they will help out more to the particular way you want to have things set up.<br />
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Here is a cool website that reviews health apps and what they do:<br />
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http://www.imedicalapps.com/#<br />
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It's a super helpful app site.<br />
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You should also have a pill minder app if you are particularly forgetful. You might already have a physical pill minder, but you should use a pill minder app to remember to go to even look at your pills, just in case. You can never be too prepared. I actually have my iPhone set up to remind me to take things in the morning and at night on one of my google calendars. You can even set it to an alarm. This is particularly important if you have to take birth control pills, because they have a very strict regimen.<br />
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So when you get together, give the other person(s) the heads up. It might be difficult to do in a poly relationship becuase you will have multiple people doing things and you'll have to keep up with all of them. You may not want to GIVE the other people or person your medical history. This is something you should keep on your person. Just make sure the other person(s) know where it is (if you hav eit printed or on your phone, etc).<br />
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Just some fun tips about medical safety from me. (Please remember that I am not a doctor, and should not be a replacement for one.)<br />
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Lots of love,<br />
-Harvest HellionHarvest Hellionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09515122358412856496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561612056386338365.post-31436340272625682892016-07-14T14:19:00.001-07:002016-07-14T14:19:22.973-07:00Dominant TraitsHello my Little Hellions. Here's a fun prompt for the day!:<br />
<br />http://prompts.submissiveguide.com/684<br />
<br />The prompt??: "What is the one quality you think most Dominants possess?"<br />
<br />This could be fun. I will tell you the thing I immediately thought of. <br />
<br />The Look.<br />
<br />I'm going to say most D-types are able to do this (switches in D-type mode, as well).<br />
<br />It's that look that you get when you know you are crossing a line or if you are fucking up. It may even be something that tells you that you are about to get something and you may not be ready for it (so stay on your toes).<br />
<br />BatDaddy has a Look he gives me when I say or do something stupid. It stems from his Old School Goth roots. That snarky and sarcastic look that just makes me go "Oh fuck." Sometimes I know what I did. You can tell, usually. It's that Look that makes you reign yourself back in.<br />
<br />I've even gotten a variety of Looks from other D-types (besides BatDaddy). I know everyone is capable of giving that Look, but D-types just do it so much better.<br />
<br />Not all Looks are of an angry sort. There is also another Look. That'd be the bedroom eyes. I don't get this one very often (we have our reasons). That's a Look that makes you shudder and shiver in all the best of ways. You know what's coming with this Look. It's not a strictly D-type Look. A s-type can totally do this look, but if you're not careful it could be (possibly) considered Topping from the bottom. If you have an opinion on this thought, feel free to leave a comment. I'd love to hear it.<br />
<br />Another thing that I feel like most D-types seem to possess is an almost leader-like quality. If you don't know how to lead, you probably need to learn. I'm not a D-type (but I do switch on occasion) but I know that if I am put into the proper situation (a D-type situation that is) I know exactly what I want and how to make decisions for my s-types.<br />
<br />This type of command is something beautiful to behold. If you ever get a chance to really see a proper (I'm not saying "true D-type" becuase that seems a bit... judgey. I suppose proper is judgey, too, a bit. But it's easier than saying any "one twue way") D-type in action, take notes. This person will know what they are doing and what they want done. I suppose you could say that they possess "Decisiveness."<br />
<br />We s-types have our own decisiveness. But most of us would rather have someone to give us tips or rule over us because we've had so much of it in another aspect of life. We want to give up our control. Let our D-types be our brain for a while. They'll let us know what we are eating, what hygeine or makeup they prefer, our clothing, or anything really. Not all D-types are that strict, but you get the idea. BatDaddy actually prefers for me to wear makeup when I leave the house. He likes the way I do it and He approves. There have been a couple of times when He looks at my outfits and puts the whoa to it. I have a tendency to wear rather crazy outfits or clash on purpose.<br />
<br />But, I digress. There are many things that most D-types have in common with each other. You just really have to look at them in a certain way.<br />
<br />I suppose that's all for that.<br />
<br />Tell us what you think about it!!! I'd love to hear some D-types views on what other D-types are like if that's possible. S-types, I know you're there. I'd love to see your comments.<br />
<br />Lots of love,<br />-Harvest Hellion<br />Harvest Hellionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09515122358412856496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561612056386338365.post-37586478606721266352016-07-11T20:00:00.000-07:002016-07-11T20:00:29.094-07:00TMI Tuesday-- 7/12/2016<strong><span style="color: #4f0606;">1. Have you ever orgasmed just by hearing sexy-dirty talk?</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: #4f0606;">No.</span><br />
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<strong><span style="color: #4f0606;"> 2. Have you ever tried <span style="color: blue;"><a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2015/04/24/lesbian-scissoring_n_7137846.html" style="color: blue;" target="_blank">scissoring</a></span>?</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: #4f0606;">Nope.</span><strong><span style="color: #4f0606;"> </span></strong><br />
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<strong><span style="color: #4f0606;">3. Have you ever practiced BDSM on yourself (bondage, nipple clamps, hot wax, etc.)?</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: #4f0606;">Yep. Mostly bondage for fun and some clamps.</span><strong><span style="color: #4f0606;"> </span></strong><br />
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<strong><span style="color: #4f0606;">4. Have you ever licked or sucked on someone else’s feet or toes? Was it a turn-on for you or were you doing it to please them?</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: #4f0606;">No, but I occasionally do foot rubs for people. It's not a turn on but it's a service and I love serving.</span><br />
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<strong><span style="color: #4f0606;">5. Would you say that you have a sexual fetish? What is it?</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: #4f0606;">I suppose I do. I really love being tied up. Some people have referred to me as Rope Kitten instead of Rope Bunny.</span><strong><span style="color: #4f0606;"> </span></strong><br />
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<strong><span style="color: #4f0606;"> 6. What is the best way for you to orgasm?</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: #4f0606;">I use vibrators. It's the only way I can feel any pressure in my crotchular area because of the nerve pain I have.</span><strong><span style="color: #4f0606;"> </span></strong><br />
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<span style="color: red;"><strong>Bonus</strong></span>: Do you have a crush on a fellow blogger? Who?<br />
Nope. I don't always read a lot of other bloggers, even. But I do enjoy other blog posts and I read from blogs that I have subscribed to. I dunno I guess the answer is no. Harvest Hellionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09515122358412856496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561612056386338365.post-11611574838785258962016-07-04T21:37:00.002-07:002016-07-04T21:37:21.762-07:00Happy 4thHappy Independence Day to all my U.S. readers!<br />
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<br />Harvest Hellionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09515122358412856496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561612056386338365.post-686344761385637142016-07-03T18:54:00.001-07:002016-07-03T18:54:44.364-07:00TMI Tuesdays 6-28-16<em><b>Last weeks TMI Tuesdays</b></em><br />
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<b><span style="color: #0e4a4a;">1. When sizing up (assessing) your romantic
relationship, is there a couple that you envy? Why? (Can be a couple
you know or famous/celebrity couple)</span></b><br />
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<span style="color: #0e4a4a;">No I don't think there is a couple that I envy. I personally love the relationship that my Owner and I have so I don't see others that way.</span><br />
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</b><b><span style="color: #0e4a4a;">2. Thinking of your current relationship, which stage are you in?</span></b>
<b><span style="color: #0e4a4a;"> a. <strong>Infatuation stage</strong> – Intense attraction and an uncontrollable urge to be with each other, strong sexual attraction.</span></b>
<b><span style="color: #0e4a4a;"> b. <strong>Understanding stage</strong> – You both start getting to know each other better, and everything about your partner interests and fascinates you.</span></b>
<b><span style="color: #0e4a4a;"> c. <strong>Moulding stage</strong> – You
each know what you want in a partner and you start moulding each other
to change in effort to create a stronger, lasting relationship.</span></b>
<b><span style="color: #0e4a4a;"> d. If you have made it this far you are in
the advanced stages of a relationship, which one best represents the
current status of your relationship:</span></b><br />
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<b><span style="color: #0e4a4a;">1) <strong>Stage of doubt</strong> – This is not what you want in a partner, and you have thoughts of ending the relationship.</span></b></div>
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<b><span style="color: #0e4a4a;">2) <strong>Happy stage</strong>
– You’ve worked out most of the kinks in your relationship, you know
each others flaws and can deal with them. You are comfortable and
enjoying the relationship in what you believe will be a long-lasting
one.</span></b></div>
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<span style="color: #0e4a4a;">I would have to say that we are in the Happy stage of the relationship. We are past moulding and whatnot so it's perfect. We're so great, in my mind. Sure, we have disagreements so there is always room for some form of improvement. </span><br />
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<b><span style="color: #0e4a4a;">3. If you are not currently in a romantic relationship, at which stage did your last relationship end? (see stages above).</span></b><br />
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<span style="color: #0e4a4a;">I'm in a romantic relationship so this does not apply.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #0e4a4a;"> <b><br /></b></span><br />
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</b><b><span style="color: #0e4a4a;">4. Do you think you are too good for your current partner? Why do you feel this way?</span></b><br />
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<span style="color: #0e4a4a;">HA! No. Not at all. If anything I feel like I need to improve to make the relationship better.</span><br />
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<b><span style="color: #0e4a4a;">5. Write a 25-word love note to your current significant other or to a person with whom you are infatuated .</span></b><br />
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<span style="color: #0e4a4a;">(I'm not sure I can write 25 words exactly, but)</span><br />
<span style="color: #0e4a4a;">Dear Batdaddy. I love you with all my heart. I want to be the best that I can be so that I will never let you down. I just want to help you and love you. I hope we are together forever. (Even if that drives you insane. Or me. But probably you. lol)</span><br />
<span style="color: #0e4a4a;"> </span><br />
<b><span style="color: red;"><strong>Bonus</strong></span>: Have you ever been obsessively “in love” with someone and perhaps borderline clingy? How did you get over your obsession?</b><br />
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Actually, I'm the clingy one. I try not to be. It's very difficult. I just want to do stuff so that Batdaddy can be proud of me and will love being in love with me, as I am in love with him. Harvest Hellionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09515122358412856496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561612056386338365.post-68448936530533034212016-07-03T18:45:00.000-07:002016-07-03T18:45:08.940-07:00Posting Schedule IdeasHi there all.<br />
<br /> It's Sunday, so I have started trying to get back on my schedule. I will be posting on Sundays about various projects and whatnot going on in the community and other things that I find to be important, and on Tuesdays I will continue my posts from the TMI Tuesday projects that are going on. Other than that I will be having random bonus posts throughout the week. There will be a little raffle type thing coming up very soon in honour of my 10k views.<br /><br />
I have not been home so I have been having trouble getting online where I am at. <br /><br />
I have purchased a 4.2oz bottle of Pink Lemonade Sliquid to raffle off. There will be a couple of different ways to earn tickets. I can't wait to see who wins! This is going to be great.<br /><br />
I also will be starting an email list for ease of reading. That way all of my readers can come by my posts through the email list if they so choose. I really like having views on my page, but I like having dedicated readers even more. It's going to be great.<br /><br />
I have a few ideas for things to come. I can't wait to share them with you all.<br /><br />
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Thanks guys.<br />-harvest hellion<br />Harvest Hellionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09515122358412856496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561612056386338365.post-47517829949262807112016-06-27T21:28:00.000-07:002016-06-27T21:28:27.789-07:00Thanks For 10k Views!!<h3>
THANK YOU ALL FOR 10K!!!!</h3>
<br />I am so excited to say that you lovely readers have given me 10k hits on my blog. I finally got a new power cord for my computer so I will be back on more now. I had lost it and didn't know where it went so I had to order one when I got the cash for it<br />
.<br />I have been helping out my local community a lot lately. I cannot wait to tell you all about it but there are things I can't talk about just yet so I will tell you guys when I get things sorted out. Just know that it is going to be great.<br />
<br />I thought maybe I would do something since I hit 10k views. I'm not sure what I want to do yet with that as well. I just needed to make sure you all knew that I have been paying attention and am very thankful that you are all reading!<br />
<br />I think I'll do a raffle!!! I just need to get something cool to raffle off (lol)!!! Expect that in a week or two.<br />So yeah, thank you all. You are all blessings to me. Keep on reading.<br />
<br />Lots of love,<br />-Harvest Hellion<br />Harvest Hellionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09515122358412856496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561612056386338365.post-69616026575444114102016-05-27T21:59:00.000-07:002016-05-27T21:59:10.121-07:00Harvest Presents: Prostate CancerHey guys. I have something important to talk to you about today!<br />
<br /><b>Prostate Cancer!</b><br /><br />
Now, I know you guys know I am a genderfluid who was assigned female at birth, so this is kind of a new topic for me to checck out. I'm all for keeping everyone healthy.<br /><br />
I also would like to post a disclaimer that I am not a doctor and I cannot give you 100% correct information.<br />
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This is from my personal research and merely suggestions as to what I would do if I were in your shoes. You do not have to do this. I am not requiring you to do so. Like I said, I am no doctor, nor do I play one on blogspot (ha ha).<br /><br />
I don't know a lot on prostate cancer but I decided that I will take a look.<br /><br />
As you know, the prostate is a gland in males (I'm not sure about female??) that you can access via inserting ones fingers inside of the rectum. But I learned there are two ways to discern if someone has prostate cancer or not. The two types of tests are the prostate-specific antigen (PSA) testing and the other test is called the digital rectal exam (DRE). The DRE is the one where the doc lubes up and pokes you in the butthole. It's not pleasant in the slightest, but it's something that you should ABSOLUTELY do. Unfortunately, neither of the tests can be 100% acccurate but such is life. <br /><br />
The average age to get one's prostate checked is, of course, 40. If you have not done this and you are past this age, get with your doctor or specialist. They will help you out. I mean it.<br /><br />
You can take steps to prevent getting prostate cancer to some degree. A healthy diet and an active lifestyle (even moderate activity will do) can help you. This goes with many things. Always check with your doctor first before you begin doing any lifestyle changes.<br /><br />
For more information about prostate cancer please visit:<br />http://www.cancer.org/cancer/prostatecancer/index<br />And for cancer in general visit:<br />http://www.cancer.org<br /><br />Keep an eye on your junk people. You don't want to go through that mess.<br /><br />
Lots of Love,<br />-Harvest Hellion<br />Harvest Hellionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09515122358412856496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561612056386338365.post-70709580371957316262016-05-27T21:32:00.001-07:002016-05-27T21:32:38.545-07:00SJP-- What I Love About MyselfHey guys. Harvest here. Sorry for my unusually long break. I have been taking a bit of a mental health vacation again. You all know that I have a hard time getting to a point where I feel like I am in a good place.<br />
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I feel like this is a good time to go about talking about something more positive, so I found a very positive journal prompt that I could try.<br /><br />
http:///prompts.submissiveguide.com/1171<br /><br />
The prompt is simple: List some things that you love about yourself.<br /><br />
So. I suppose I should make a small list.<br /><br />
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<li>I like the fact that I know how to sew.-- It is a handy skill and I can help a lot of people out with that skill, even if it's sewing on buttons or zippers and the like. I like the fact that I can make my own patterns if I choose to and make my own outfits. I want to improve my sewing skills, but I think I'm doing pretty well at the moment. But there is always room for improvement. I want to learn how to do quilts. I think I would have fun making them. I would make them as gifts for people and I bet I could find a way to make a kinky quilt!!</li>
<li>I like the fact that I can make people laugh. I know through my pain I can make people laugh and have a good time. I say my pain becuase it feel like that the things I have gone through in my life (which are mostly painful. I learn things the hard way after all) are what give my stories life.</li>
<li>I like the fact that I can make friends easy enough. I can start a conversation with just about anyone. It's a great feeling. I like learning new languages so I can make friends in other languages as well. I've kind of dabbled in japanese, french, german, russian, spanish, and sign language. Of the list of languages, I only understand spanish and sign language well enough.</li>
<li>I like that I know how to care for and train animals well enough. I grew up breeding AKC registered cocker spaniels so I know quite a bit about birthing puppies and also kittens (they're pretty similar). It's something that I enjoy doing because playing with puppies and kittens could be one of the greatest joys on the face of the Earth.</li>
<li>I like that I can do some belly dance moves and pass some of my information and fun along to other people. Belly dancing brings me great joy and freedom. I feel alive when I dance. I suppose this goes for any dance I know though because I really love the fact that I can dance like a crazy person.</li>
<li>I like that I have a blog that people actually read. My readers (you!) are important to me. I care for all of you and want to show you my life.</li>
<li>I love that I have a great support network that I can rely on. I don't know if that is something that I would say I like about myself, but I kind of do.</li>
<li>And now: I like that I am FINALLY starting to follow my dreams.</li>
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<br />I mean, that's kind of a lot really when you think about it. I can't wait to tell everyone what I am doing for following my dreams finally. I may have to make a special post just to tell you all about what I'm doing and if you think you can help me along, please let me know once it's posted.<br /><br />
I needed this post because lately I feel very used. I feel like people aren't taking me seriously. I feel like no one is proud of anything I do and it makes me suffer internally. I don't know. Maybe I'm just a huge wy-bag ("whine bag").<br /><br />
Hopefully you will see me around some more. I'm going to try to keep up with things again and get back to doing TMI Tuesdays if they are still doing them and whatnot.<br /><br />
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Lots of love,<br />-Harvest HellionHarvest Hellionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09515122358412856496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561612056386338365.post-77650443184288388042016-03-14T19:57:00.001-07:002016-03-14T19:57:45.343-07:00TMI Tuesday-- 3/15/16<strong><span style="color: navy;">1. Have you ever been so loud having sex that housemates/neighbors commented or complained?</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: navy;">No. I actually don't make a lot of noise. I've been confused with fucking a corpse. O_o</span><strong><span style="color: navy;"> </span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: navy;">2. Ever had kids or parents bust in on you in the middle of full on sex?</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: navy;">Yeeeeees. It was embarrassing but my dad has walked in on me while doing things.</span><strong><span style="color: navy;"> </span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: navy;">3. Have you ever licked or sucked on someone else’s feet and/or toes? Was it your request or theirs?</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: navy;">Nope. Feet are kind of icky to me.</span><strong><span style="color: navy;"> </span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: navy;">4. Describe your typical sexual romp:</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: navy;">It's pretty boring honestly... It's usually a LOT of foreplay because for some reason I can't get into the act properly.</span><strong><span style="color: navy;"> </span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: navy;"> a. You are playful and tame</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: navy;">somewhat tame but mostly playful.</span><strong><span style="color: navy;"> </span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: navy;">b. You have introduced a few things like outfits and toys</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: navy;">Yes!!! I like all sorts of things like this. Batdaddy and I are way into costumes and toys.</span><strong><span style="color: navy;"> </span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: navy;">c. You love trying new things and shocking your partner</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: navy;">I don't like to shock Batdaddy. I want him to be happy with what we do.</span><strong><span style="color: navy;"> </span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: navy;">d. Keep it simple–missionary, lube, sleep.</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: navy;">Ech. At least I can do SOME things besides just this. Missionary can get boring. I like to switch it up a bit.</span><strong><span style="color: navy;"> </span></strong><br />
<strong><span style="color: navy;">5. Speaking of lube–what is your favorite lube for sex and why?</span></strong><br />
<span style="color: navy;">I found some at a local sex shop called Unicorn Spit. It tastes like donuts. Period.</span><strong><span style="color: navy;"> </span></strong><br />
<span style="color: red;"><strong>Bonus</strong></span>: What are you looking forward to this week?<br />
Not much. I have a lot of work this week so I'll be able to get a lot of video watching done. But that's about all I will be doing. I think I might take up chain mail finally though. Harvest Hellionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09515122358412856496noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561612056386338365.post-36705175138665830082016-03-14T19:49:00.001-07:002016-03-14T19:49:40.346-07:00What Makes You Tick?Hi guys! Harvest here.<br />
<br />So for the past few days I have been getting involved in the local community. I've met with so many people lately it isn't even funny (well, it is to me, since I'm seriously introverted and playing at being extroverted. To me, the internet is the only place I can really be extroverted/myself properly). I've been meeting with subs, slaves, switches, pets, etc. with a class here that I am helping out with. I'm very proud to be helping out. It means a lot to me. I can't talk about it much but I can say that it is doing a very good thing helping the community out.<br />
<br />I've been wondering about what makes us become who we are. S-type-wise I mean. Like how is it that I became a pet. That I actually have somewhat an answer for. Yes, it did involve my childhood to some degree, but it's not a triggering sort of thing.<br />
<br />When I was young, my mother would encourage us to be whatever we wanted to be whenever we chose to do so (save for when my father was home. That's a story in and of itself). I always wanted to be more peculiar choices (a rabbit, a dinosaur, a doll, etc.). Somehow in my mind I have always wanted to be a cat. My mother would make my brother and I costumes with the things that we had. They were always really impressive. I remember dressing up as dalmations after we had seen the 101 Dalmations movie (it was always one of my brother's favorite movies).<br />
<br />I think it all kind of just stuck with me from there. I feel like it is good to be different; to achieve what you want in peculiar ways. You can become what you want through your garb or your attitude.<br />
<br />Sometimes I wonder how abuse would come into this. I was asked the other day if I thought that some people became pets because they were abused. This I cannot say for sure, but I think that there are some people/pets who choose this life becuase of this. They want the security behind that. They want what they know... And if abuse is all they know, then perhaps this is what they want (even if it's not good to be driven that way).<br />
<br />I think I'm going to research this further.<br />-Harvest HellionHarvest Hellionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09515122358412856496noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1561612056386338365.post-15583087670364146992016-03-10T16:30:00.000-08:002016-03-10T16:30:10.582-08:00Random Musical Interruption Here's a video for a song I find myself singing quite often:<br />
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z7rjcdRjqPs<br />
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It's "Big Butts" by the Ying Yang Twins.<br />
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Tell me that doesn't get stuck in your head.<br />
-HarvestHarvest Hellionhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09515122358412856496noreply@blogger.com0